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EXPAND MY REACH LORD

alignment buildwithgod impact kingdom alignment kingdom builder kingdom entrepreneur kingdommindset Jul 06, 2025
WHEN THE LORD TELLS YOU HE WANTS A FULLY SURRENDERED YES IN THE BUSINESS HE INVITED YOU TO BUILD AND MANAGE WITH HIM... 
I’ve been building with God for a long time. I’ve followed where He leads, said yes to what He asks, and carried assignments that didn’t always make sense to others, but were clearly from Him.
But sometimes, when we turn down a road that feels too familiar… I reach for the emergency brake. Not because I’m unsure of His voice, but because the destination stirs something uncomfortable in me.

I’ve never feared failure. But success? That’s the one I’ve wrestled with.
The Fear of Success Isn’t About Arrogance, It’s About Control.

For me, success has always felt like acceleration I can’t control. And when I get glimpses of the future, the kind that come with divine confirmation, I also feel the weight of what it would take to carry it.

I’ve experienced acceleration many times before, and I’ve ended it every time. Not because it wasn’t God… but because it would overtake me. I hadn’t yet learned boundaries in serving, nor systems as protective boundaries.
So I would slow it down. Walk away. Pause what God was propelling, because the idea of managing more without the right help felt like too much.

And here’s the thing, I’ve also seen the acceleration and expansion work beautifully. I’ve helped others launch things, stewarded their visions, and created systems to help them scale. However, in those situations, I helped them build support teams or created systems myself, so they wouldn’t feel the same level of overwhelm I felt.
But I’ve never had someone match that pace or carry my vision with the same honor, support, or strength I give others. 
 
"ROAD RUNNER" ANOINTING, NO PIT CREW.
I’m wired like a road runner. I jump in where needed, fine-tune visions, streamline systems, and get things moving. Double-dutch style, jumping in and out to help others gain clarity and momentum.
But I’ve rarely (probably more like never) experienced someone doing that for me. I don’t say that with pride. I say it with honesty.

It’s made me hit the brakes on my own momentum before, because I refuse to be the woman who builds for everyone but burns out in her own home. My family is not my afterthought. They are part of my assignment.
But God Healed That Fear, and Then He Said “Go, AGAIN”
 
RECENTLY, THE LORD BEGAN HEALING THAT HESITATION IN ME. HE WANTED SOMETHING FROM ME IN THE PROCESS:
A full YES.
Not a cautious yes.
Not a conditional yes.
A fully surrendered, hand-off-the-brake YES.
 
AND THE MOMENT I GAVE IT TO GOD, HE SAID SOMETHING I WASN'T EXPECTING:
“I will accelerate and expand your reach.”
 
THE ANSWER? SERVICE.
Within two weeks of my YES, He gave me two new assignments.
As I was praying for strategy, expecting instructions for my next move, He didn’t just give me a strategy outline or a social growth blueprint, He had me create one. A guide specifically for other moms building both home and business with Him in real time.
 
 
AND THE GOD GAVE ME TWO SPECIFIC ASSIGNMENTS:
#1: Create a workbook to help those same mothers move past the stuck places I had to surrender, those moments where momentum feels like a threat instead of a gift.
 
#2: Help build the Media program at my new church, using my gifts to help lengthen their reach and free up their hands, so they can be extended in all the other ways they needed to.
 At first, I felt that old reflex. Reach for the brake. Slow it down. Pause the progress.
 
 
BUT THIS TIME GOD MADE IT CLEAR:
This is part of your expansion. Not just in business, but in capacity. In surrender. In impact.
Because When God Expands Your Reach... He invites you to live in HIM as your capacity. He is the strategy. He is the support. And He is the reason you’ll never have to choose between obedience and overflow again.
Every area you surrender to His will and His strategic instruction, He multiplies.
Because It’s One Mission: Reveal the King. Expand the Kingdom.
 
Kingdom building isn’t compartmentalized. It’s not either/or. It’s obedience wherever the bricks need to be laid.
And as long as He’s leading… your reach will always be in His hands.
I’m excited to be what I need for someone else. I’m excited to free up someone so they can run faster and further. I’m excited to place the bricks wherever He says to lay them.
 
Because in this Kingdom, He calls the location and He prioritizes the schedule. The materials may be the same, our gifts, our wisdom, our hands, but He determines when and where they’re to be used. Brick by brick, we will build structures that house heaven on Earth, and together, we will bring the Kingdom to the Earth.
 
THAT IS THE REWARD:
To get to build with and for The KING—wherever He needs it done.
One Kingdom. One Mission. All builders on deck.
 
 
NOW LETS MAKE IT PERSONAL
This is a Kingdom Builder’s perspective.
What if the very thing you’ve been calling too much… was actually the evidence of your next assignment?
What if the hesitation wasn’t about timing, but about trusting God as your capacity?
 
 
TAKE A MOMENT TO REFLECT:
Ask yourself:
Have I been pulling the brake on something God is trying to accelerate?
Am I expecting help before I say yes, or is my yes the seed for the help?
What do I believe about success, service, and surrender?
 
 
KINGDOM ACTION STEPS:
Pray for clarity where your perspective may have been shaped more by fear than faith.
Write down one area where God is calling you to move, then ask Him for your next brick.
Serve someone this week in the same way you’ve been longing to be supported.
 
Declare out loud: “Lord, You are my capacity. I say YES. I trust You to lead, to send, to supply, and to multiply.”
Shift as you need to and lay those bricks as instructed. God will multiply the rest.
The reward isn’t in the results. It’s in the obedience to build with the King.
 
One Kingdom. One Mission. All builders on deck.
xo, QianaNicole


Check out The Workbook I created 
for Moms building both home and business with God in real time: Click here to see on Amazon

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